HE CAN GET THAT FROM A PROSTITUTE IF HE IS NOT GOD FEARING.

NEITHER IS IT FOOD, HE CAN GET IT FROM A GOOD RESTAURANT.

A MAN’S GREATEST NEED IS RESPECT.

FOR THIS REASON THE PROPHET SAID IN THE FOLLOWING HADEETH…

عَنْ قَيْسِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ، قَالَ أَتَيْتُ الْحِيرَةَ فَرَأَيْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِمَرْزُبَانٍ لَهُمْ فَقُلْتُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ أَحَقُّ أَنْ يُسْجَدَ لَهُ قَالَ فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقُلْتُ إِنِّي أَتَيْتُ الْحِيرَةَ فَرَأَيْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِمَرْزُبَانٍ لَهُمْ فَأَنْتَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَحَقُّ أَنْ نَسْجُدَ لَكَ.

قَالَ ‏”‏ فَلاَ تَفْعَلُوا لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لأَحَدٍ لأَمَرْتُ النِّسَاءَ أَنْ يَسْجُدْنَ لأَزْوَاجِهِنَّ لِمَا جَعَلَ اللَّهُ لَهُمْ عَلَيْهِنَّ مِنَ الْحَقِّ ‏”‏ ‏.‏

Narrated Qays ibn Sa’d: I went to al-Hirah and saw them (the people) prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs, so I said: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) has most right to have prostration made before him. When I came to the Prophet (ﷺ), I said: I went to al-Hirah and saw them prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs, but you have most right, Messenger of Allah, to have (people) prostrating themselves before you.

He said: “Do not do so. If I were to command anyone to make prostration before another I would command women to prostrate themselves before their husbands, because of the special right over them given to husbands by Allah.”

Sunan Abi Dawud 2140
In-book reference : Book 12, Hadith 95

AFTER THAT, THE PROPHET MADE AN OATH SAYING….

والَّذي نَفسُ محمَّدٍ بيدِهِ لا تؤدِّي المرأةُ حقَّ ربِّها حتَّى تؤدِّيَ حقَّ زوجِها ولو سألَها نفسَها وَهيَ علَى قتَبٍ لم تمنعْهُ

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“By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad! No woman can fulfill her duty towards Allah until she fulfills her duty towards her husband.”

Sunan Ibn Majah, The Chapter on Marriage
Book 9, Hadith 1926

MY HUMBLE REQUEST: MY DEAR SISTER, RESPECT YOUR HUSBAND AND YOU WILL BE TREATED AS A QUEEN.YOU WILL GET ALL YOU WANT TRUST ME.DO NOT DISRESPECT YOUR HUSBAND IN ANY WAY, EVEN WHEN HE IS WRONG. FIND A WAY TO TALK TO HIM NICELY FOR HIM TO UNDERSTAND .THANK YOU AND MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU.

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